You’ve figured out your life’s purpose
Finances aren’t the only yardstick for success. Money allows you comfort and security. But doing what you love, gives you purpose. You do what you do because it gives your life meaning. Perhaps it’s a hobby you’ve been wanting to try. Or a skill you’ve always wanted to learn. You know what you want and you don’t need anyone’s approval.
You’ve accepted your body and
what it can do for you
Remember how you used to curse mom for the thighs she gave you? Well, you’ve learned to stop obsessing over it. When you did, you realized that the world didn’t give a hoot. Fun isn’t monopolized by the young and beautiful. When you learned to accept your body, you found your personal style. One that gave you confidence, assurance, and poise. You could rock those jeans as well as you could carry that lime green frock. You’ve also been taking care of yourself the way you should.
You use your fine China
You’ve decided to use that delicate set of China for everyday meals. You know that the special occasion is now. Always now. Because there will never be one like it. Food tastes so much better on it too.
You aren’t afraid to leave the lights on
Ladies, it’s a take-me-as-I-am kind of attitude. Seduction has never been sexier because you know that the biggest pleasure spot is the mind.
You’ve weathered the worst of storms
Whether it was a job loss, death of a loved one, divorce, bankruptcy, or disease… you realize that not all problems have solutions. Only managed. And how you’ve managed your life’s battles. (Had any of these happened earlier, you’d be a wreck.) You march on with your head held high. Every wrinkle and scar, a mark earned in wisdom and experience.